Thursday, April 07, 2005

Here's something intersting that i established the other day...

Everyone knows the 'beautiful people'. they are the people who seem like they have it all. or maybe to some of you they dont...but this is my opinion!

anyways, as i was saying...the beautiful people, they seem to have everything that anyone could ever want. Or most things at least. They don't seem to ever do anything that they may regret, with the exception of maybe the occassional hangover. but anyways the other day i established just how easily a 'beautiful' person can crumble and it made me sad. it made me wonder that maybe they are missing out on something great. it made me sad because they seem to feel everything much deeper than other people would.

It, i suppose, is just natural that some people feel emotions more than other 'fall fast and hard' and all other sayings like that but it still upsetting to think that as much i would want to help, for that one moment i couldn't.

I think the main reason for that would be (this bit is not open for discussion) that i have never really belonged as part of the 'beautiful people' crowd. So maybe all this really means is that 'beautiful people' can only help each other and all other categories(whatever they may be) can only help other people in the same category because this is where their understanding lies.

Anyway...just another random thought for my day...and yours too now...

~.~

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

no nikki - i didn't know you could do that.

it's a bad thing being one of those people who are opinionated and have to have a say about everything but i am and i'm going to. after all this is only the net, you can choose not to read it if you want.

my thoughts on 'beautiful' people:
i'm typing this as i think of it so there's probably going to be some parts of this thought that are wrong and don't make sense or are just rubbish but i was thinking about how these 'beautiful' people crumble so easily. i reckon it could not be that they experience emptions any more sever than the rest of us just because they're 'beautiful' but if being 'beautiful' (and probably popular) has given them a more public life then they could look like they fall harder just because we get to see it. non-'beautiful' people (i'm speaking from my own experience here, probably be different for other people) tend to have more of a private life. you don't get to see and experience as much of they're emotional falls from a perspective outside anyone close to them, whereas 'beautiful' people (this isn't the way i mean this but i can't think of another way to say it right now) don't have anywhere to hide.

of course for those 'beautiful' people who d have everything and don't regret anything and have a wonderful life they might just be over-reacting. i think it's a wonderful thing that they do lead that sort of life, god has been generous to them, but it has a slight tendency to make them see something as much bigger than it really is. this is kind of a textbook reason and a bit exagerated but i think it's valid. it's like people's immune system. if you have someone who takes a lot of pills and keeps everything as clean as it can possibly get, when they get a cold it makes them bedridden because they're system is soft. this is getting off that track but life is hard, and anyone who tells you it's not is a representitive from LG. a sort of lose thought i just had that maybe it's because they're got nothing else to think about. if they're life is cushy they won't have anything to distract them and so they dwell on a problem until it consumes them to a greater of lerrer degree. or maybe going back to the public life thing i was talking about before maybe they tend to bottle up everything in order to be 'beautiful' people and always look like they have no regrets and life is wonderful, and something comes along and it trips them off. who knows? i should stop trying to offer advice.

megs said...

no sayers you are doing well at the advice column...i mean that!good stuf
i totally agree that beautiful people appear to have it all at times, all that is except the knowledge that God's love knows no bounds for them and is the bestest most exciting thing anyone could want. it is only when you have that that you can become beautiful in your own right.
But these "beautiful" people, who says they are beautiful except those who look at them and go, wow hey LOOK happy hence must be beautiful...? as they say... and i think tim was trying to say too...looks (whats on the outside) can be deceiving!while some may aspire to be a beautiful person, what they don't realise is the superficiality of their facade (the outside)and the limitations these have on the inside.

Pez...i think their regrest take on diff forms... or they may not openly show or realise they regret something until it is much too late to ask for forgiveness/move on. I believe we all have moments like this -we tell others yeah we are fine... and really we aren't we are just wanting them to notice and really say - ok so whats wrong, digging deeper. as a result those around you who pick you up and get you going again are the truly beautiful people around you...who show compassion and are just there to be a shoulder to lean/cry on or whinge to when you need it. with these people, the superficial 'beautiful' in appearance or possessions or popularity doesnt even enter into the equation. i think for that reason, WE maybe are those who we would never regard ourselves as 'beautiful'people, may not be so in the superficial sense... but who cares... we are beautiful in the truly deep loving, caring and friendship sense just as we were created to become. whilst this may not be the widely accepted version, i think it is the truer more correct version, who have people like friends and family watching out for them when they fall, one mate especially...
that has been your meg pick me up for the day... now go out and tell others that may not be the 'beautiful'type based on normal ideas, that they truly are... in all sense of the word!
xo :)

pez said...

curiouser and curiouser